Here's the scenario that came up last night while playing: I was playing m.u. nerds against a cthulhu deep one deck running khopesh. He had a character with khopesh on and on my turn I played a cafeteria lady because I wanted to exhaust one of his deep ones. After I played the cafeteria lady he used khopesh to kill her. Do I not have a window to where I can use her ability before he kills her with khopesh? I mean since I'm the active player would I not get to perform the action first or is playing her considered my action?