I was just reading over the rules again and I noticed something about toughness I think I have been playing wrong.
So if I defend with a character with toughness(1) that has 2 life and my opponent is attacking my kingdom with a total of 3 power. He only has to apply 2 of the power to my character before applying the other one to my kingdom. This is because toughness does not kick in when damage is being assigned.
Is this the way everyone has been playing?